- She went to a better place
- He went to his eternal reward
- She went to meet her maker
- He passed away
- She is at peace
All of these turns of phrase indicate a singular truth: talking about death makes people uncomfortable. This is brought to bear in modern America by all the ways death is shuttered away behind a number of closed doors. Whole communities no longer gather around the dying in private homes. In fact, communities are frequently caught unaware at news of a neighbor, colleague, and sometimes even friend’s death. There are increasing cultural and social expectations that people experience the dying process in clinical environments, such as hospitals or nursing facilities. Death, as it is experienced today, is often no longer a process that whole communities engage with time and emotion.
A Brief History of Hospice
Hospice organizations, however, have noticed that there are other ways to manage death and dying. In fact, there are healthier means of negotiating the journey people take from living to dying, and the aftermath of grief their loved one’s experience. In short, hospice providers have adopted a philosophy of care for patients with life-limiting illnesses and their loved ones that takes the “teeth” out of what taboos would otherwise present as a hidden, frightening experience.
Hospice care seeks to replace taboos about death with an open dialogue that helps patients and their loved ones plan for living well during the time that they have remaining together, until the patient’s eventual passing. Hospice teams support dying patients in their home and in most clinical settings – whichever environment serves patients and their families best.
The modern hospice movement is easily linked to old monastic practices that combined religious care with health care and service (note that the word hospice shares the same root word as hospitality). Monks did not pray for the sick and dying from the privacy of cloisters. Instead, monks were on the forefront of holding hands, wiping brows, providing nourishment and water, and keeping vigil at the bedsides of those coming to the end of their lives. Their sense of purpose was to ensure that no one died alone.
Hospice care seeks to replace taboos about death with an open dialogue that helps patients and their loved ones plan for living well during the time that they have remaining together, until the patient’s eventual passing.
Hospice and the “Good Death”
Dame Cicely Saunders picked up on these monastic themes of care in the mid-20th century, creating St. Christopher’s Hospice in London specifically for the care of dying patients. Going against the grain of medical practices then, and even medicine now, Dr. Saunders introduced healthcare practices that do not see the body as a constellation of interchangeable parts to keep alive at any cost.
Dr. Saunders instead introduced medical care that empowered patients to live well in the time remaining, and allowing medical teams to accompany patients in achieving a “good death.” In 1963 she lectured about these practices at Yale University and thus birthed the U.S. branch of the hospice movement for the benefit of anyone facing death.
Alleviating Suffering in All Forms
Patients enjoy frequent communication with a team of people interested in relieving pain and discomfort by utilizing prescription pain relievers, generic drugs, and all available medical technology. Medicine and medical technology can be used to support the patient as he/she continues to progress through the journey of end-of-life. A hospice professional may also provide suggestions for relieving pain without medication that may be useful in addition to their physician prescribed treatment.
Effective Pain and Physical Symptom Management
A major focus of hospice care is the alleviation of physical suffering through pain management. This is emphasized so that patients are able to feel more comfortable and can achieve a higher quality of life overall. A hospice team will work closely and collaboratively with a patient to reach their quality of life goals by effectively managing pain and other unwanted physical symptoms.
Treating the “Whole” Patient
The hospice compassionate care model stands out from other forms of healthcare due to its emphasis on holistically treating the patient. Hospice care extends beyond solely addressing the physical ailments of a person and also seeks to nurture their emotional, mental, and spiritual needs. This is possible through the hospice interdisciplinary team that includes a group of diverse professionals, each with their own unique focus.
End-of-life Goals
Many patients who are afflicted with a life-limiting illness have certain experiences that they wish to pursue. Perhaps this includes attendance at a major family celebration, travel to a sentimental location, completing a major project, or experiencing one last adventure. Hospice care teams are sometimes able to work with patients and their families to articulate those goals and seek to provide circumstances that best allow patients to achieve their last wishes.
Advance directives such as a medical power of attorney and a living will can provide clear direction on how to manage a patient’s affairs after death or if the patient becomes unable to make medical decisions for themselves.
Planning for Death
In the March 1989 edition of the New England Journal of Medicine, Eric Cassel captured the spirit of hospice by writing best, saying, “As sickness progresses toward death, measures to minimize suffering should be intensified. Dying patients require palliative care of an intensity that rivals even that of curative efforts even though aggressive curative techniques are no longer indicated, professionals and families are still called on to use intensive measures, extreme responsibility, extraordinary sensitivity, and heroic compassion.”
Encouraging Advance Care Planning
Death marks the end of a person’s life, but it does not end acknowledgement that the person lived and was loved. Hospice teams can help patients and their families prepare for a patient’s passing by encouraging advance care planning. Advance directives such as a medical power of attorney and a living will can provide clear direction on how to manage a patient’s affairs after death or if the patient becomes unable to make medical decisions for themselves. These decisions could include how to manage Cardiopulmonary Resuscitation (CPR). For more information on common advanced directives, please review our informational pages on:
- Medical/Healthcare Power of Attorney
- Living Will
- Do Not Resuscitate (DNR Order)
- Do Not Intubate (DNI Order)
Additionally, patients can outline funeral and other memorial arrangements that honor a person’s life and help families begin the grieving process. Furthermore, hospice believes in extending support to family members following loss. Bereavement care is offered to those who were close with the deceased as they begin to adjust to a new way of living without their loved one.
Contact Harbor Light Hospice For More Information
Hospice care philosophy is to care for the whole person and their loved ones regardless of their circumstances. Death is a part of life and hospice care has identified and utilizes practices that help all patients and their loved ones through the most difficult parts of dying and death with honesty, compassion, integrity, and strength.
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